If you’ve brushed shoulders with the world of BDSM, chances are you’ve encountered the term ‘submissive’. It’s one part of the dominant/submissive binary. The dominant is the one who takes charge in the sexual relation or the erotic play and also the one who is in control. Now, the submissive is the total opposite of
Everybody has some kind of role during sex, whether they like to admit it or not. That’s because sex has a lot to do with power and with that, control. Some people like to lead more, be more dominant and controlling, and some want to be more passive. Others have it pretty well managing both
When we talk about sex, we usually don’t talk about punishment as well. But the world of BDSM is different. BDSM punishment can actually be a very, very sexy thing – if you’re into it. Not everyone that engages in BDSM sex and dom/sub (dominant and submissive) relations includes punishment in their sexual and erotic
We’re lucky we live in an age where the word BDSM isn’t as controversial as it once was. Did you know that the theme of power, control, and rough sex is the second most common sexual fantasy? Really, it’s no wonder – BDSM offers plenty of room to spice up your sex life. If you
Do you get excited just hearing the word BDSM? What do you think of first – sex dungeons, latex suits, elaborate bondage scenarios, and role-play? I mean, sure, that’s all a part of the big game of BDSM, but if you wanna take it a little slower, that’s okay as well. BDSM is a lot
The world of fetishes and kinks is a wondrous one. A diorama of countless practices, sometimes difficult to navigate by – especially if you’re a newbie. But, worry not my friends, because that is exactly what you will come to know here. I will give you a list of kinks and fetishes, an introduction into
When you think of BDSM, you’re likely overwhelmed with pop-culture images. It’s especially hard not to think of Fifty Shades of Grey, which actually kinda popularized the term when it came out in 2015. But, as you may have already guessed, there’s actually much more to BDSM than what the film portrays In fact, critics
A lot of us harbor unspoken desires, fetishes, and kinks. Things we’d like to do in the bedroom but never had the courage to share with our partners. And even if we think of ever sharing them, we wonder: is there a way to talk to your wife about your fetish? Consider Justin Lehmiller’s research,
There are plenty of ways to spice up your love life. From getting better at your foreplay moves to using toys, it’s never a bad idea to stop and reevaluate once in a while. Are you’re both feeling a bit stale and notice that you’re slowly losing your desire to have sex? Well then, there are plenty
